Tuesday, November 15, 2011

The Company You Keep

A while back, my sister sent me an email with the message below, and now more than ever it's making perfect sense...and for those people in my life that I have to step away from, please know that I still got love for you, but in order for me to grow, I cannot continue to be around you.  Hopefully, y'all can understand.

The Company You Keep

It is better to be alone than in the wrong company.

Tell me who your friends are, and I will tell you who you are.
If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl.

But, if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights.
A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses.
The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with whom you closely associate for the good and the bad.
The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve.
Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your mediocrity.
An important attribute in successful people is their impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people.
As you grow, your associates will change.
Some of your friends will not want you to go on.
They will want you to stay where they are.
Friends that don't help you climb will want you to crawl.
Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dream.
Those that don't increase you will eventually decrease you.

Consider this:

  • Never receive counsel from unproductive people.
  • Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing to the solution, because those who never succeed themselves are always the first to tell you how.
  • Not everyone has a right to speak into your life.
  • You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person.
  • Don't follow anyone who isn't going anywhere.
  • With some people you spend an evening; with others you invest it.
  • Be careful where you stop to inquire for directions along the road of life.
  • Wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right friendships.
                                                                                         ~ Source Unknown

Be blessed and stay encouraged,

                                K. WiLL













Saturday, November 12, 2011

It Hurts to Learn the Hard Way...

Hey y'all, I know it's been a minute since I last posted but I can only speak when the inspiration comes and unfortunately, as of late, I've been quite distracted.  With that being said, here are some thoughts on where I'm at right now regarding some of the people in my life.


 I'm running circles in my head
Unsure of my next move
Ending up right where I started,
Starting back where I began

Empty associations I chose to deal with
In hopes of bringing light
Giving insight to those who requested
Preventing my own dreams from taking flight 

Sharing laughter and good times
But rarely going past the surface
Often teaching, at times even preaching
Yet they never seemed to care

If you read this and it stings,
And you don't quite understand
Why friendship I'll no longer offer
Until you choose to become a better man.

~K. WiLL